I've been reading a book by Tim Stafford called
Never Mind the Joneses. I've really only started, but the introduction talks about how each family has their own family culture. And your family culture includes anything and everything, down to your basic Saturday morning rituals. It begs the question to be asked, what is one thing your family culture makes you do?
For me, since I am going to Sonic for lunch, I am thinking about a Sonic family culture experience. And just like the book talks about, this type of experience really has been passed down through generations. From back to my Grandpa's day of taking his family to the DQ for ice cream cones in their pajamas, to my mom taking us to a drive-thru and parking by a lake somewhere to eat it, now I have carried on the tradition. I have done the drive-thru to the lake routine several times, but last summer we took it to a new level when the first nearby Sonic opened. Since we had a 1-yr old, it changed the experience a bit. We loaded up and headed to Sonic. We placed our order and then shifted the kids to the back of the jeep. We quickly folded down the seat, set up a portable high chair for said 1-yr old in the back, a TV tray for the 3-yr old (to save any spills, of course), and then we crammed ourselves in back with them. To me, this seemed totally normal, but that doesn't explain why cars driving by were amused by the scene - I mean really amused. To the pointing and laughing extreme. I don't
think they were laughing
at us, but they were laughing. I thought it was great fun!
May I continue passing down my bizarre fast food traditions from generation to generation. I sure hope Grandpa was watching us that day! He may have started all this business.
So what does your family culture make you do?
I am so looking forward to reading this book, which seems to first help you understand what family culture is, identify your own family culture, identify what you want in your family culture, and figure out how to nurture it and let your family thrive within that culture. I am hoping it is one of those life changing books you just have to read. If it is I'll let you know.